
Understanding Funerals, Cremations, and Grief in 2021
When the CDC issued “Practical Covid-19 Guidance for Funeral Directors” in late February, 2020, it was apparent that the world had reached an inflection point. Seemingly overnight, “business as usual” became “how we do business today and maybe tomorrow.” Dr. David Berendes of the CDC said that the purpose of the protocols was to “encourage alternative […]
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Facing the Uncertainties of Aging
“Aging isn’t a battle, it’s a massacre,” Philip Roth wrote. “The inevitable onslaught that is the end of life…it’s the commonness that’s most wrenching, the registering once more of the fact of death that overwhelms everything.” True, physical diminishment is an inescapable element of aging — but research indicates that growing old is […]
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The Many Lives of Larry McMurtry
Pulitzer prizewinning author Larry McMurtry grew up in a remote west Texas ranch house that was bookless. An occasional copy of The Cattleman, a trade journal for beef producers, was the only written material available to him. “There had to have been a Bible around, but I never saw it,” he said. “I don’t think my parents ever […]
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The Denial of Death: Why we run from the inevitable
Posted by Martin Oaks under Community, Cremation, Hello world, Memorial, Resources
The chief embalmer of a busy funeral home recently remarked, “No matter how often I do this procedure, I am always struck by how we end up here on the table by ourselves. We are in a single file line, we all die alone.” The cornerstone of human existence is its temporal nature. “None of […]
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Mank on Netflix explores the mysteries of Citizen Kane
After Orson Welles and Herman Mankiewicz shared the Best Original Screenplay Oscar for 1941’s Citizen Kane, the wunderkind Welles sent this letter to his collaborator: “Dear Mankie, Here’s what I wanted to wire you after the Academy Dinner: ‘You can kiss my half.’ I dare to send it through the mails only now that I find it […]
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