The Denial of Death: Why we run from the inevitable

Posted on February 25th, 2021
Posted by Martin Oaks under Community, Cremation, Hello world, Memorial, Resources
Leave a comment

The chief embalmer of a busy funeral home recently remarked, “No matter how often I do this procedure, I am always struck by how we end up here on the table by ourselves. We are in a single file line, we all die alone.” The cornerstone of human existence is its temporal nature. “None of […]

Continue Reading

Nostalgia:  The Powerful Taste of Long Ago

Posted on February 18th, 2021
Posted by Martin Oaks under Community, Hello world, Memorial, Resources
Leave a comment

The Madeleine Tea Cake is the most renowned pastry in world literature.   When Marcel Proust’s narrator in Remembrance of Things Past began eating the sponge cake after it had been dipped into warm tea, a flood of memories was released—a watershed of seven volumes, 1.5 million words.   Here is that celebrated moment: “As soon as I […]

Continue Reading

The Morning Sound of Clark Weber from Chicago

Posted on February 12th, 2021
Posted by Martin Oaks under Community, Memorial
Leave a comment

When Clark Weber and Ron Riley, two of the most popular personalities on Chicago’s hottest radio station, WLS, introduced The Beatles to a sold-out crowd at cavernous Comiskey Park on August 20, 1965, the reaction was tumultuous.  “As we brought The Beatles on, you could put your hands out and actually feel the sound from […]

Continue Reading

Humans in Search of a “Good Death”

Posted on February 5th, 2021
Posted by Martin Oaks under Uncategorized
Leave a comment

As prominent psychologist Edwin Shneidman noted, you don’t have to die, it will be done for you. Shneidman also theorized that a person doesn’t experience death.  Ironically, it is the living loved ones who experience the death. For well over 50 years, Shneidman studied loss of life, a subject which does not appeal to many, […]

Continue Reading

Mank on Netflix explores the mysteries of Citizen Kane

Posted on January 28th, 2021
Posted by Martin Oaks under Community, Cremation, Memorial, Resources
Leave a comment

After Orson Welles and Herman Mankiewicz shared the Best Original Screenplay Oscar for 1941’s Citizen Kane, the wunderkind Welles sent this letter to his collaborator: “Dear Mankie, Here’s what I wanted to wire you after the Academy Dinner: ‘You can kiss my half.’ I dare to send it through the mails only now that I find it […]

Continue Reading